How many of us actually listen to what our partner is saying? How many of us actually tell our partner how we are really feeling thinking, craving….
How many of you come home from work, and don’t even ask how your partner’s day was at work or if anything exciting or bad happened. How many of us from time to time get a little something like a flower or perfume or tie for your partner not just on special occasions but just as a surprise to show you care. Sometimes when you’re so occupied with routine, or you have kids we forget the little things we did when we were younger and how hard we tried to show one another we care.
I know for myself I’m only 21, when I care about someone or I love someone I made sure every special occasion and other and spent so much money on gifts just to show I cared, even if it was just a card. As we get older sometimes our ego over comes us we don’t see the need in those little things that make the extra difference, that’s why so many marriages or relationships fail cause we get so caught up into routine we forget to take a special day where you do something exciting or romantic together. We get so caught in routine we forget anniversaries or each other birthday or we don’t notice that we cut each other’s hair or lost some weight or got a new clothing, it slowly diminishes from being us and love to just, oh yeah hey I see you every day whatever you look the same . I’m not saying spend every moment with your partner because I know from experience that can destroy a relationship, you need to have a balance pay special care to your partner, but also make that time to be with your friends, because if you don’t have that balance and special attention the relationship can’t last. Make your partner feel special, let them know when your upset about something they have done (us women, we can’t constantly play the silent game with the men till they figure out what they did wrong you have to just tell them in their face because we might be surprised if they listen build a bridge and get over it and try to fix it) and guys it’s a typical for you to forget the anniversary of your wedding after years but write it down cause when you’re in love there is no more beautiful thing to make us smile than you remembering it.
How many of you come home from work, and don’t even ask how your partner’s day was at work or if anything exciting or bad happened. How many of us from time to time get a little something like a flower or perfume or tie for your partner not just on special occasions but just as a surprise to show you care. Sometimes when you’re so occupied with routine, or you have kids we forget the little things we did when we were younger and how hard we tried to show one another we care.
I know for myself I’m only 21, when I care about someone or I love someone I made sure every special occasion and other and spent so much money on gifts just to show I cared, even if it was just a card. As we get older sometimes our ego over comes us we don’t see the need in those little things that make the extra difference, that’s why so many marriages or relationships fail cause we get so caught up into routine we forget to take a special day where you do something exciting or romantic together. We get so caught in routine we forget anniversaries or each other birthday or we don’t notice that we cut each other’s hair or lost some weight or got a new clothing, it slowly diminishes from being us and love to just, oh yeah hey I see you every day whatever you look the same . I’m not saying spend every moment with your partner because I know from experience that can destroy a relationship, you need to have a balance pay special care to your partner, but also make that time to be with your friends, because if you don’t have that balance and special attention the relationship can’t last. Make your partner feel special, let them know when your upset about something they have done (us women, we can’t constantly play the silent game with the men till they figure out what they did wrong you have to just tell them in their face because we might be surprised if they listen build a bridge and get over it and try to fix it) and guys it’s a typical for you to forget the anniversary of your wedding after years but write it down cause when you’re in love there is no more beautiful thing to make us smile than you remembering it.
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